How will we be remembered? (And for how long?)
How does that differ from how we want to be remembered? Is that how you live a life, anyhow – worried about posterity, and the current/future good opinion of others?
At any rate, that second path doesn’t appear (to me) to be how I am living my life. But wtf do I know?
A hug to those who need it. They know who they are right now.